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tQV FjI`uP A SCIENTIST has unveiled the five best ways to make someone fall in love with you and they’re all really quick and simple to carry out.
1~QPG\cdIX 有一个科学家找到了5个让别人爱上你的最佳方法,而且实行起来十分简单便捷。
.q 3/_* 1. Keep eye contact wuJ4kW$ 1. 保持眼神交流 ;{o|9x| According to American social psychologist, lawyer, and author Zick Rubin’s study people who are in love maintain eye contact 75 per cent of the time.
q8Z<{#oXu 美国社会心理学家、律师和作家齐克·鲁宾的研究发现,恋爱中的人75%的时间都保持着眼神交流。
SN!?}<|U And it’s scientifically proven that intimacy increases between people who don’t look away as much and constantly keep eye contact.
RlDn0s 科学证据也显示,眼神移开得少、一直保持眼神接触的两人亲密度也会上升。
9pxc~= 2. Be a good listener x~j`@k,; 2. 用心倾听 oFGhNk Studies by the University of Nevada and the University of Washington state listening as an important part of falling in love.
{s{j~M 内华达大学和华盛顿大学的研究发现,要让对方爱上你,倾听是很重要的。
78H'ax9m We appreciate feeling as though someone is interested in us, who we are, and our experiences, so avoid digressing and turning the conversation back onto you.
yqiq,=OvP 当有人对我们感兴趣、想要了解我们的经历时,我们会感到很高兴。所以不要岔开人家的话题,不要把话题引回自己身上。
qc~iQSI Wanting to be heard is apparently a primal need, so engage in conversation with people and then try to ask follow up questions.
U2~kJ 被聆听是人的根本需要,所以说要参与到别人的谈话中,顺着话题提问题。
?#YE`] 3. Validation d6sye^P 3. 认可 {Fe[:\ The same study also cites validation as a key part to falling in love. Making your partner feel supported directly leads to love.
-{vKus 这个研究也把“认可”列为让对方爱上你的关键因素。让对方感受到你的支持,这会直接让你们堕入爱河。
p`#R<K A person is more likely to love you if they feel as though they’re getting it right.
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td3D=Y And 48 per cent of failed couples said their relationship broke down because of a lack of appreciation.
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_aMPa+D=P 4. Smiling Yr=Y@~ XL 4. 微笑 6;qy#\}2 This tip is fairly basic but according to a study by Drake University, smiling makes you more attractive and engaging, which is appealing to others.
r s?R:+ 虽然微笑十分平常,但德雷克大学的研究显示,微笑会让你更有魅力。
Y,e B| It also makes you look more like a winner to other people, which is why it’s an important aspect to falling in love.
0|\$Vp 微笑还会让你看起来比其他人更
成功,所以微笑是让对方爱上你的重要元素。
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W#C*5@ 8 最后是身体触碰。哈佛大学的研究显示,身体触碰会让双方在整体上对感情感到满意。
XJ5. Being tactile with someone increases comfort and intimacy, which helps make bonds between people stronger.
rkY[E(SY 身体触碰也会让双方感到更放松,拉近双方
距离,使双方的联系更加紧密。
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