摆脱单恋辛酸：5个方法快速让ta爱上你(双语)

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　　A SCIENTIST has unveiled the five best ways to make someone fall in love with you and they’re all really quick and simple to carry out. s(q_ o
 
　　有一个科学家找到了5个让别人爱上你的最佳方法，而且实行起来十分简单便捷。 x0w4)Ic5  
　　1. Keep eye contact j9+w#G]hV  
　　1. 保持眼神交流 161xAig  
　　According to American social psychologist, lawyer, and author Zick Rubin’s study people who are in love maintain eye contact 75 per cent of the time. `XEr(e9  
　　美国社会心理学家、律师和作家齐克·鲁宾的研究发现，恋爱中的人75%的时间都保持着眼神交流。 pgZXJ  
　　And it’s scientifically proven that intimacy increases between people who don’t look away as much and constantly keep eye contact. Whf.fK  
　　科学证据也显示，眼神移开得少、一直保持眼神接触的两人亲密度也会上升。 _X"N1,0  
　　2. Be a good listener AoL2@C.C%D  
　　2. 用心倾听 :yjKL^G>  
　　Studies by the University of Nevada and the University of Washington state listening as an important part of falling in love. WWHoi{q  
　　内华达大学和华盛顿大学的研究发现，要让对方爱上你，倾听是很重要的。 zi*R`;_`,  
　　We appreciate feeling as though someone is interested in us, who we are, and our experiences, so avoid digressing and turning the conversation back onto you. naznayy  
　　当有人对我们感兴趣、想要了解我们的经历时，我们会感到很高兴。所以不要岔开人家的话题，不要把话题引回自己身上。 2'MZ s]??w  
　　Wanting to be heard is apparently a primal need, so engage in conversation with people and then try to ask follow up questions. Ffta](Z;  
　　被聆听是人的根本需要，所以说要参与到别人的谈话中，顺着话题提问题。 ,>+p-M8ZL  
　　3. Validation WKa~[j|-K  
　　3. 认可 ^V Zk+'4  
　　The same study also cites validation as a key part to falling in love. Making your partner feel supported directly leads to love. a\YV3NJ/A  
　　这个研究也把“认可”列为让对方爱上你的关键因素。让对方感受到你的支持，这会直接让你们堕入爱河。 PQ$%H>{  
　　A person is more likely to love you if they feel as though they’re getting it right. m:o<XK[>  
　　如果你让对方觉得ta是对的，ta就更有可能会爱上你。 ;)^`3`  
　　And 48 per cent of failed couples said their relationship broke down because of a lack of appreciation. N7 $I^?<  
　　48%分手的情侣说他们分手的原因是对方不欣赏自己。 :^3LvPM  
　　4. Smiling g0ly  
　　4. 微笑 i3'9
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　　This tip is fairly basic but according to a study by Drake University, smiling makes you more attractive and engaging, which is appealing to others. @xYlS5{  
　　虽然微笑十分平常，但德雷克大学的研究显示，微笑会让你更有魅力。 k4y'b  
　　It also makes you look more like a winner to other people, which is why it’s an important aspect to falling in love. 5>N2:9We  
　　微笑还会让你看起来比其他人更成功，所以微笑是让对方爱上你的重要元素。 D#JL!A%O  
　　5. Touching >{J(>B
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　　5. 身体触碰 :mn>0jK,N  
　　And finally, touching, according to a study by Harvard University, touching leads to overall satisfaction in relationships. Cg?&wj<
 
　　最后是身体触碰。哈佛大学的研究显示，身体触碰会让双方在整体上对感情感到满意。 $F+ LDs  
　　Being tactile with someone increases comfort and intimacy, which helps make bonds between people stronger. |f_[\&<*  
　　身体触碰也会让双方感到更放松，拉近双方距离，使双方的联系更加紧密。 A*P|e-&Q8  
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