双语：婚前男女必看的“配对测试”[段段英汉对照见回贴]

屈联西

　　Work工作
　　Are your respective career paths compatible, is either of you going to have to make compromises? Are you prepared to? Will you want to give up work when you have children? What does your partner think about this and can you manage financially? What about part-time working?你们的职业规划协调一致吗？是否有人要做出妥协？你们准备好这样了吗？有了孩子以后你要放弃工作吗？你的伴侣对此怎么想？这样做不会经济拮据吧？做个兼职怎么样？

屈联西

　　Roles - traditional or modern?定位---传统型还是现代型？
　　Will you expect to live along traditional lines: woman as homemaker and man as breadwinner? Who will organise the finances? Will household responsibilities be shared equally? Who will assume responsibility for paying bills?你希望按照传统方式生活吗？女人做家庭主妇，男人养家糊口？谁掌管财政大权？家庭职责要平等分担吗？谁来付账单？

屈联西

　　Honesty忠诚
　　Are there any old flames for whom you still hold a candle?
　　你还在怀念旧情人吗？

有雨如丝

　Are you going to have to pay off your partner's debts perhaps from what you thought was going to be the deposit on your house?
这个问题很强悍呀！