美文：真好，还有人爱你

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那是我还在读大学 3zD#V3=  
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and was sleeping deeply in my dorm room bed t~/:St  
有一天，我正在寝室里沉睡
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after a rough day of classes. t:fz%IOe  
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I heard the door open Sl,DZ!  
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and light from the hallway streamed in. yVmp,""a  
走廊上的灯光射进来 aO&{.DO2  
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我最好的朋友兼室友 s0f+AS|}  
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was standing there unsteadily. u0&R*YV  
神情不安的站在那里 >B**fZ~L  
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His girlfriend had broken up with him 3Z9Yzv)A  
他的女朋友跟他分手了 92<+ug=  
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earlier that day 18rV Acj  
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and he had spent the evening KJec/qca  
这整个夜晚 z:f&k}(  
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downtown in a bar 6LCtWX  
他都呆在市中心的一家酒吧里 p7Wt(A  
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trying to drown his sorrows with 13 whiskey sours. Bam.B6-  
为了借酒浇愁，一连灌下了13杯威士忌酸酒 pJ/]\>#5  
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I got up *mp:#'  
我从床上爬起来 $5 mGYF]  
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and helped him to climb up into the bunk bed &@oI/i&0B  
帮助他回到高低双人床上 ]j>xQm\  
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He didn’t look so good. -\f7qRW^U  
他看起来不太好 #17 &rizl  
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His face was whiter than normal 1cOR?=G~  
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and he could barely walk. yor'"6)i  
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who tried to get him to go back downtown &wK:R,~x6  
他们想劝他再回市中心去 {UP[iw$~  
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for more drinking hE(R[hc  
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I finally got him to lay down. ,EEAxmf  
我终于让他躺下来 +S4>}2N33  
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一分钟之后 x>EL|Q=?  
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he said he was going to be sick. Qa=Y?=Za  
他说自己想要吐了 PSq?8.  
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I managed to get him to the bathroom L/:l>Ko>7  
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down the hall >M2~p&Si  
洗手间在走廊另一头 !}h) 
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but he couldn’t throw up. *`+zf7-f  
他却吐不出来了 EX_j|/&tZ  
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I walked him slowly back to bed 7!AyLw  
我扶着他慢慢走回寝室，上了床 Y ]()v  
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and got him into the top bunk again. O`y3H lc  
又扶着他爬到了上铺 GLO3v. n;  
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当我正准备转身回去睡觉的时候 *MmH{!=  
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when I heard it: f1aZnl  
我听到了 htbE Q NW  
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retching followed by 13 whiskey sours i24k ]F  
13杯威士忌全吐了出来，然后是干呕的声音 u1X^#K$nu'  
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splashing on his sheets. >)M1X?HI5  
还有呕吐物溅在他床单上的声音 .@)vJtH)  
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I got him off the bed again, M584dMM  
我再次把他从床上拖起来 5{b;wLi$X2  
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stripped his sheets r&8aB85  
扯下他的床单 "e"#k}z9  
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and helped him back up once more. PyfWIU7O  
再扶他上床
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I was wary of another splash down f\oW<2k]~  
我在底下留神听着他再次呕吐的声音 m:)&:Y0 (a  
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but soon 7vZO;FGtG  
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I heard his gentle snoring. =.8n K y  
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I couldn’t really be mad at him, though. I^A>YJW  
尽管如此，我却无法对他生气 ZXs,TaU  
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he just wanted what we all wanted: :dW\Q&iW  
他想要的只是我们都想要的 LA;f,CQ  
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 “To be Loved.” 0M;g&&mF  
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Over the decades that followed .
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在随后的几十年中 lU!_V%n  
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I started to realize a few things too. _<f%== I'  
我也开始意识到一些事 [4#HuO@h  
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I learned that )]q Qgc&  
我学会了 @@*x/"GJG  
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the best way to be loved (!fx5&F  
想要被爱，最好的方式 \Ebh6SRp\  
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was to be loving. J#C4A]A  
就是先给与爱 +#wVe  
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And I learned that WwsNAJ  
我也学会了 1f+A_k/@  
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the best way to be loving #"-_~  
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就是清楚的意识到 VB905%  
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you were already loved. 1y:fH4V  
你已经是被爱的人了 Fq~Zr;A  
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and let your love out. W3[>IH"+  
释放自己的爱 {f/]K GGk  
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The greatest gift we can ever get 7Ku&Q<mi  
我们能得到的最好的礼物 1v:Ql\^cT  
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is to be loved j.6!T'$|  
就是被爱 c[2ikI,n[  
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and the greatest gift we can ever give %|+aI?  
我们能给出的最好的礼物 _YlyS )#@  
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is to be loving. #f(tzPD  
就是给与爱 *J^FV^E``  
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they are one and the same. JcYY*p  
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